Also:
I will not compliment you as if you were a child, for we are equal.
I will not invite you to write a new page of peace, for I trust you on your path. (And: for we are equal.)
I will not make assumptions about you, for I am focusing on myself.
I will not give you easy unasked advice, for that is annoying.

I will declutter my own boat by looking inside, clean the mess while taking responsibility without quilt.